Sharing children's things safely
Before sharing an item, check what it is, what is included and whether another family can use it safely. Before collecting, confirm the description and agree the arrangements. Giving something away for free does not make an unsafe item suitable to pass on.
Check the actual product
Read the labels and manufacturer instructions. Check the GOV.UK product safety alerts and recalls for the exact product or model where relevant. Follow any recall instructions. Do not list a recalled item as usable or assume that mentioning a serious defect makes it suitable.
Describe known damage, missing parts and functions you have not tested. Use your own current photographs. If you cannot identify a product or establish whether it is suitable, resolve that before offering it. Car seats, sleeping equipment and other safety-sensitive products require their own product-specific checks; this general checklist cannot certify them.
Follow the YoungPlanet Terms of Use and the rules shown when listing. Do not publish personal documents or another person's private details in photos or descriptions.
Ask before you travel
Check which items are included, their dimensions and condition, and whether the person sharing has agreed that you can receive them. A request is not a reservation or a guarantee. Confirm that the item is still available before setting out.
Agree a collection time and a suitable meeting point you feel comfortable with. Share any precise handover details privately, rather than putting a home address in a public listing. Tell the other person promptly if you need to cancel.
Keep the handover clear
At collection, check that the item matches what you agreed. If something is unsuitable, explain the problem and do not feel obliged to take it. Agree any postage cost and arrangements clearly before proceeding; marketplace items themselves remain free.
After the exchange, use the app's available controls to update the listing and exchange status. For an issue, use the app's reporting controls or contact YoungPlanet.
A handover checklist to keep
Download the plain-text handover checklist, or print this page.
- Identify the exact item, model or labelled size.
- Check the relevant official recalls and manufacturer instructions.
- Count included pieces and describe missing parts or damage.
- Take current photos without private information in the background.
- Confirm who is receiving the item and that it is still available.
- Agree collection or postage and transport requirements.
- Update the other person if arrangements change.
- Check the item at handover and update its status afterwards.
See how free sharing works, how to write a useful toy listing and current free items.
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